Sexperts reveal the spicy bedroom trends we have in store for 2023

While sex is nothing new, it’s constantly changing and evolving with people being turned on by new and exciting bedroom activities.

To prepare us for the new year, sex company Lovehoney has shared the five biggest bedroom trends for 2023 – and they’re not what you expect.

The biggest takeaway is that people will be more open, intimate and experimental with themselves and their partners.

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Oh, and the bum will finally get a look in.

Re-exploring anal play

When it comes to sex, the butt is still shrouded in shame and other negativity but if all parties are interested and open to exploring, there is much to discover and enjoy.

Especially, when looking at male pleasure, the prostate as an erogenous zone is often overlooked. It is accessible through the anus and, when properly massaged, can provide unparalleled pleasure a man can experience alone or with a partner.

“Using lube is the first thing that anyone should take into consideration when exploring the anus, and plenty of it,” Annabelle Knight, sex and relationships expert at Lovehoney Group, explained.

“Anal play is a marathon, not a sprint, and you should treat it as such – it may take some time to find the right spot, speed, and depth, so take it slow and explore.

“If you haven’t stimulated the prostate before then using a prostate massager could give way to a seriously intense orgasm, but there is no need to force it.”

Sexual mindfulness

Sexual mindfulness means less casual dating and performance-centred sex and more self-focused interactions.

For sex with a partner, it means focusing on the partner and one’s body, really being in the moment without any pressure to perform or climax.

“While achieving orgasm is of course important when it comes to masturbation and indeed sex, it isn’t the be-all and end-all,” Annabelle said.

“Sex, masturbation, and pleasure are all intrinsically linked to our wellbeing, but there has been somewhat of a disconnect when it comes to accepting this.

“However, we are seeing now more than ever that people are looking for a holistic experience when it comes to all things sex, over quick satisfaction.”

Open intimacy

Former taboo topics such as menstruation, sex and female sexuality are being discussed more openly, which is a shift that has been strongly driven by women and members of the LGBTQI+ community who are speaking out loudly against prejudice and stigmatisation.

Open intimacy leads to better communication about our needs and desires. A better exchange of what is needed for sexual fulfilment ultimately leads to better relationships and more sexual happiness.

Sexologist and relationship expert Jessica O’Reilly added: “I think consumers have been ready to buy sexual wellness products in mainstream shops for a while now. The retailers are just catching up.”

Smart sex tech and the metaverse

Would you have sex with a sex robot? If yes, then you are one of 36% of people who would be curious enough to try it out.

While cyber sex and virtual experiences have gained popularity during the pandemic, people are now looking for experiences in the real world again. Instead of a full virtual sexperience, people want the best of both worlds.

“The Metaverse allows us to immerse ourselves in digital content rather than feeling like a separate viewer,” Bryony Cole, Lovehoney’s global sex tech expert, said.

“People naturally look at entertainment as the only possibility for sex tech, but there is also a great potential for sex education, sexual happiness and sexual health support in the Metaverse.

“Plus, the combined anonymity and intimacy of this platform, allows people to engage with this topic further, where they perhaps don’t feel comfortable in real life, allowing more people to educate.”

Intentional Dating and Sexual Fantasies

After two years of distance and isolation, a renewed desire for intimacy is shaking up the dating culture.

Rather than casual dating, singles are more interested in “slow love”, prioritising an emotional connection and meaningful conversations at the onset, while also ensuring sexual compatibility.

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