‘I’m a sexpert – here’s why women should ditch vibrators and porn’
A sexpert has spoken out to say women should ditch their vibrators and porn.
Holly Robinson, 34, said sex toys and porn “disconnect” women from their bodies. She says women should go for the natural route when it comes to pleasure.
The sexpert teaches women the importance of self-pleasure and believes using vibrators can become “numbing”.
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She holds guided self-pleasure sessions on Zoom and believes women should touch their bodies exactly how they would want their partner to.
Holly encourages women to put a note in their diary for a time of self-pleasure – which may just be a sensual shower.
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The entrepreneur, who owns a sex therapy business, The Hormone Hub, from Colchester, Essex, said: “Women can become reliant on a vibrator for an orgasm.
“It can create disconnect with our bodies and sex with our partner.
“The vibration is overstimulating and can then numb the touch of our own hand.
“It’s the same with porn as it disconnects you from your body and what it feels like.
“Self-pleasure is not just about the orgasm it’s about the experience.”
Holly doesn’t use a vibrator herself and warns women not to use them.
She commented: “It’s against the pro sex movement but it can be disconnecting if we’re just getting a quick orgasm and then rolling over to sleep.
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“I make space for self-pleasure twice a week. I put a note in my diary – it’s a priority.”
Holly teaches her clients to reconnect with their bodies.
She said: “Loads of us feel really weird about touching our own legs or boobs.
“We can start off slow by sensually rubbing moisturiser or body wash in the shower.
“It’s self-care at the highest.”
Holly believes by having a better relationship with self-pleasure it will strengthen a person’s sex life.
“It’s amazing for our body confidence,” she said.
“Having a really healthy self-pleasure practice can heighten how sex feels.
“It secretes so many hormones. Then you know what you want from sex.”
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Holly wants it to be stressed that self-pleasure and sex should be treated differently.
“I think there is a myth that if you’re masturbating more, you’re not getting enough sex,” she said.
“It’s just like in life sometimes I want to do things just by myself and other times I want to do things with partner.”
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