‘I’m a sizzling 52-year-old cougar – folks name me egocentric however I by no means need youngsters’
A self-confessed cougar refuses to bow to the pressures of society.
Patsy Mennuti, 52, is branded “selfish” for not eager to quiet down with a husband or youngsters. But she will not apologise for placing herself first.
The life coach, from Fort Lauderdale in Florida, US, needs to indicate different girls that they do not want a person or household to really feel fulfilled.
She advised Fabulous: “Motherhood and wifehood are very very very hard work, and women still do not get the emotional and physical support they need from their partners.
“In many cases, they get one more body they have to keep up with and care for. I have met countless women over the years who so lonely and isolated in their relationships with their husbands and so many feel that they ‘have to do it all.’
“Motherhood and wifehood can be rewarding with the right partner, but so many studies now show that the happiest individuals on Planet Earth… are single women.
“I am proof positive that that path can be exceedingly rewarding. Sometimes I call it radical selfishness.”
Patsy refuses to let age outdated her again both. She advised Daily Star: “Even though my life is more than half over, I still like to wake up every day at 52 with that same outlook like anything is possible.”
Part of her zest for all times was obvious when she partied at Spring Break this 12 months. The cougar felt proper at house throughout the festivities, the place she mingled with strangers and sipped on drinks.
“I was out clubbing at night, just hanging out at the pool and at the beach with everybody during the day and just having just amazing conversations with people, going to concerts, getting bottle service, I just did it up,” she stated.
Another a part of residing her “best life” is having enjoyable with youthful males – as a substitute of older blokes who’ve chosen a extra “sedentary path”. At 38 she had her first expertise with a youthful man, 10 years her junior.
“It was incredible. It was amazing. It was so fun. We had a great time together,” she stated.
“…Yes, I’m attracted to younger men. Yes, it’s such a fun energy, and I really enjoy interacting with them. But I think overall, too it’s about navigating midlife in an empowered way”.
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