‘I’m 39 however look 20 – relationship is hard as a result of tremendous younger guys at all times hit on me’
A girl who claims to look virtually half her age has stated her youthful look makes her relationship life robust as a result of she’s continually being hit on by males who’re “too young” for her.
Real property agent Jessenia, from New Jersey, US, is 39 years outdated however says individuals usually assume she’s really in her 20s. While it would look like a flattering praise, she claims being mistaken for a “typical” 20-year-old makes on the lookout for love inconceivable.
Taking to Instagram to disclose the realities of relationship while you look youthful, Jessenia posted a video of herself displaying off her toned abs in a pair of white high-waisted shorts and a halter-neck crop prime with a plunging neckline. She captioned the clip: “When you’re in your late 30s but look young”.
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Jessenia then acted out the problems she usually faces in relation to on the lookout for love as she revealed youthful guys usually examine her out as a result of they assume she’s “their age” however she has to inform them she’s “too old” for them. But she then claimed that when she makes an attempt to flirt with guys her personal age they shoot her down as a result of they assume she’s “too young”.
Explaining her relationship woes within the caption, Jessenia wrote: “Dating is hard as is. But navigating the dating scene looking younger has been a unique challenge for me over the years; esp now that I am in my late 30s.
“GOSH!! Im 39 !! AND NOOO, I don’t really feel outdated nor am I freaking about my age, however I nonetheless get hit on by SUPER younger guys trying to ‘sweep me off my ft’.” While some individuals would like to be mistaken for youthful than they’re, Jessenia defined after relationship her fair proportion of youthful males she’s realised it isn’t what she needs.
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She defined: “Let’s be real. How many 20-year-olds do you know that have their life together? I knoooow. To be fair even 30-something-year-olds don’t have it together; and if there is ONE thing I’ve learned, a man at any age needs to have their life in order to be at peace with himself and bring safety and stability into a woman’s life.”
She revealed that relationship youthful males has made her really feel like she’s appearing like a mum at instances and she or he’s lastly had sufficient. She added: “I’ve dated younger and have been mum, coach, assistant, planner, manager etc so the only person doing the sweeping has been me and yes I am very tired of that and I been telling the Universe and God ‘NO MAS! No More!’ I want to be swept away!”
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Jessenia stated she hasn’t been in a position to date males older than her as a result of they assume she’s only a “typical” 20-year-old however claimed males are improper about her. She continued: “I haven’t dated someone older than me and that’s mainly because men assume I’m in my 20s, and a ‘typical 20 yo’ girl at that. NOTHING about me is typical. PLUS I’m a whole WOMAN.”
The remark part was left divided over her relationship struggles and a few individuals did not imagine she appears youthful in any respect. “Am I the only one who believes she looks 39? I did not think she was younger at all,” one individual commented.
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Another wrote: “Not offensive at all, but you look your age.” A 3rd stated: “But you look 40 though.” Others even accused her of being the issue in relation to on the lookout for love.
“I meannnnn if you 39 unmarried YOUR LIFE AINT TOGETHER maybe date a younger guy and yall can grow up together,” wrote one individual. Another commented: “When you’re 39 and still doing attention-seeking behaviour,” adopted by purple flag emojis.
But some claimed individuals leaving hateful feedback have been merely jealous of Jessenia’s appears. One individual stated: “Men get so mad when an attractive woman is confident.”
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A second wrote: “People are really angry in the comments. You don’t look 39, nobody would know if you didn’t say anything! You look great, you go girl!!!”
It appeared Jessenia is not the one girl to expertise comparable issues in relation to relationship while you look youthful than you might be as different viewers associated to her frustration. “Legit. The struggle is freaking real,” one individual wrote. Another agreed, including: “I relate to this SO much!!”
But one other joked: “Girl, this is a great age because you can date the son and the father! If he acts up, just make them your stepson!!!”
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