‘I’ve acquired six girlfriends – trolls say I’m paying them however we’re in love’

A British music producer who has “six women he calls girlfriends” usually defies trolls who declare his relationships are fakes.

LX Xander defined to the Love Don’t Judge podcast that having intercourse “gets harder with more than four people”. He presently lives in Los Angeles, having grown up within the UK.

Xander continued: “I currently have six girls that I would consider as girlfriends. I have Nia, Avery, Vee, out in Florida, Beyani, and then Izzy. There are a couple more girls who I’m pretty close to but they’re a lot more private.”

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He mentioned it “wasn’t a conscious decision to all of a sudden become polyamorous.” Having a number of girlfriends simply appeared extra pure, with Xander including: “I just found that traditional monogamy didn’t really work with me and the way that I function as a human being.

“Having to reserve all of my love and affection for just one individual doesn’t fit right with me – it just doesn’t feel right.”

Xander mentioned he’s usually slammed on-line, primarily by different males, due to his unconventional way of life.

He learn out one instance, the place a commenter mentioned: “You are a white man making money from black culture. You are a guest here don’t be taking our women and degrading them so you can make a fast dollar.”

Lots of people suppose he should be paying the ladies to faux to be his girlfriend, as he defined: “I had one comment saying strippers will do anything.” He additionally reckons lot of his critics secretly envy him. “They’ll say issues to try to make it seem to be it is faux or like I’m paying them,” Xander continued.

“Or they’ll say ‘Oh he’s like a sugar daddy … all of that nonsense. I think for some men seeing the way that I live is quite a hit to their ego.”

He’s presently speaking to Dani, who claimed what attracted her to him was the truth that he is sort, candy and humorous. She defined: “I like the fact that he was straightforward and honest. When he told me he had six girlfriends it didn’t really bother me.”

Xander mentioned wouldn’t be bothered if any of his girlfriends was seeing one other man. “It’s up to everyone to do what they want to do,” he added.

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