‘I’m a proud sugar child – my man pays for every little thing and does the house responsibilities too’

A sugar child undoubtedly wears the trousers in her relationship.

Tutu Okey, 24, by no means pays for something and makes her boyfriend do all of the house responsibilities. As effectively as cooking, cleans and doing the laundry, he additionally showers her with luxurious presents.

The medical graduate describes her 25-year-old boyfriend as each the “provider and the wife in the relationship”. She doesn’t have a full-time job and has by no means cooked him a meal.

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Things get much more unconventional because the couple dwell 3,600 miles aside and solely handle to see one another 4 instances a yr. When Tutu visits her man in Washington DC, USA, she makes certain he foots the invoice for her £1,200 return enterprise class flights.

Tutu, from Harrow, London, stated: “I have a man who takes care of me – why wouldn’t I be proud of that? We’ll go food shopping together, but I don’t do any of the cooking. He enjoys being in the kitchen but me not so much. The most I’ve ever done is cook an egg.

“We review finances weekly because we’re building a life together. When I’m in the USA, he’s more than happy for me to take his bank card when I need and when I’m in the UK he gives me a monthly allowance – it’s the least he can do.

“I took my time discovering him by not settling down with the primary man who got here alongside and it is honest to say it is paid off.”

Despite being friends since they were 14, the couple only started dating in October 2021 when they both found themselves single. “It was like one thing in each of us modified and out of the blue we weren’t simply pals,” Tutu said.

“We each realised that we’ve got a love right here that is deeper than a friendship. Regardless of the time distinction, we have been calling at any change we bought.

“Early on in the relationship, I established my requirements for what I was looking for in a partner. I knew some men might be intimidated by such honesty, but my boyfriend said it made him even more sure that I was the one for him.

“I wanted somebody who was going to cherish me- not simply say they do however show it. I’m nonetheless determining my subsequent profession transfer, so for the time being I’m a ‘stay-at-home girlfriend’ and my companion helps that.”

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Tutu believes her relationship dynamic is because of “being a child of divorce” because it has made her unwilling to compromise.

During their time collectively, her companion has spoiled her with a £250 Telfar bag, a premium gold necklace, quite a few pairs of designer trainers, in addition to holidays to Miami and New Orleans – he even shocked her with Beyonce live performance tickets for her twenty third birthday final yr.

“When I graduated last year, my mum initially wanted me to get a job as soon as possible but now she respects that I’m still figuring it all out,” Tutu stated.

“But it’s my objective to get into the healthcare sector as a result of I’ve bought a ardour to assist folks… At the second, I make my cash from creating content material and, after all, my man helps me out.

“We dream of having our own family one day and want our kids to see our love as an example – to find respectful partners of their own when they grow up.

“I needed a person who is sensible, beneficiant, bold and feminist. And my man ticks all these containers.

“The fact he wants to wait on me is sexy and it’s nice to see him being a bit of a domestic god. When the dinner he’s cooked is ready, he’ll bring the plate to me or if I’ve had a late night, he’ll always have something ready for breakfast like a bowl of fruit or leftovers.

“He’s solely urged I cook dinner a few times, and it was a whole fail which we nonetheless giggle about.

“He always brings my mum a gift when coming back to the UK and loves to take her out for dinner or shopping. It’s their bonding time and it fills my heart with joy.

“He’s my greatest buddy and I can not wait to marry him – then I’ll be a stay-at-home spouse”