‘I came upon boyfriend’s saucy secret a month into courting him – it is complicated’
When you first get into a relationship, it’s important to be honest and open.
As a couple, you set yourself some boundaries and understand every detail about each other. Now a woman was stumped after discovering her boyfriend’s secret.
The anonymous female shared her tale on a popular thread on Reddit. She said how the pair had been dating for just over a month now.
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She claimed how she noticed her partner is subscribed to a racy adults-only website where he pays to see private snaps of other women.
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The girlfriend said: “I (24F) and him (26M) have been in a relationship for over a month and recently found out he uses OnlyFans which he knows I don’t like.
“Upon confronting he said it is really common for guys to do and that I should not make a deal out of it.” The woman then asked: “Is it really common?”
Unsurprisingly, the post scooped just 100 comments with people reaching out to share their input on the situation. One said: “Lmao not him trying to gaslight you.
“‘It’s really common for guys don’t make it a big deal’. It is not common with men in serious relationships that actually respect their partner. What a dips***, break up with this loser.”
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Another added: “I feel like the term ‘gaslighting’ has been overused and lost its meaning lately, but this is actually a textbook example of gaslighting right here!”
Meanwhile a third commented: “Sexual boundaries are subjective, some couples are okay with OnlyFans and some aren’t, but I don’t agree with him saying it’s common because he’s doing it to dismiss your feelings.
“OnlyFans is even wilder than Pornhub to me because he’s paying to watch very specific content/girls. You are totally allowed to be upset and uncomfortable with this as it seems like he’s crossing a sexual boundary of yours.”
A fourth posted: “Red flag,” as a fifth wrote: “Dump him and stick to what you want in a man. Not a perv. It’s a problem now and it will continue to be one.”
And other Reddit users didn’t see an issue with any of it. One said: “They been in a relationship for a month… wouldn’t really say that’s a ‘serious’ relationship yet…”
While a second chimed in: “Clearly you’re just insecure and controlling.”
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