‘My penis is the dimensions of a Red Bull – it is so huge it is ruining my intercourse life’
A man has bravely opened up about growing fed up with his stilted love life which has been dampened because of his very girthy penis.
While some people might argue there is no such thing as ‘too big’ when it comes to penis size, this anonymous man would beg to differ. He admitted he doesn’t know what to do with his member, adding it has caused many relationships to fizzle out due to problems with sexual intimacy.
Taking to social media, he wrote: “As you grow up through your teen years, you are led to believe that if you have a big d***, you are automatically a hit with ladies, this is false. I have only ever had one serious partner, after a while of being together every time we tried penetration she said it felt like she could feel herself ripping. This naturally killed our sex life, which in turn killed intimacy and our relationship.”
He went on: “I had another shorter-term partner, it straight up didn’t fit, even when she was fully relaxed and loose. When we tried lube, she bled, and I felt horrible. This relationship fizzled out because of other reasons, but I guarantee this would have been a problem later on.”
Many people have asked the man why he doesn’t just sleep around until he finds a person who can accommodate his size – but he explained he’s never enjoyed casual sex. He wrote: “I’ve always found I craved genuine intimacy much much more. The reason why each of these relationships fails is because I value sex very much in a relationship.
“Despite this, I am always the root cause as to why it fails. I don’t want to get a reduction, that feels wrong. There isn’t too much I can do, I just wanted to get this off my chest cus it’s damn frustrating.”
The man revealed it isn’t the length that’s often the problem as he’s around seven inches when erect – which, while larger than average, is not the cause of his strife. He added it’s the girth that causes women pain. “I’m a bit smaller than a soda can girth-wise, but larger than a Red Bull can,” he explained.
While a few people commenting on the Reddit post left lewd remarks, many others offered words of sympathy and comfort. Others gave tips on how he could proceed in future.
“Go to an adult shop. Ask them if they have any books on the topic you can purchase,” one person wrote. “Make sure your partner is turned on and maybe has had an orgasm before you enter her.
“If you do it right your partner should not feel like she needs stitches after sex. Many men assume size overcomes a lack of technique. Don’t be one of them.”
Someone else added: “Women give birth, the tunnel can stretch but it will need time and effort. Don’t give up. The right woman will want to make the effort to try. There’s always a lid, for every pot.”
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