I’m a solo traveller – this is why being RUDE helps preserve me secure
- Sierra Belle, 26, from the United States, travels the world completely alone
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A female solo traveller has revealed her top tips for travelling alone, which include booking certain hotel floors and being rude, as well as some of her scariest experiences.
Sierra Belle, a creative account director from North Carolina, US, has journeyed all over the globe, from Croatia to Montenegro and the Dominican Republic, and says that confidence is one of the keys to reducing your chances of being a target.
It’s OK to be rude
The 26-year-old, who imparts her wisdom to 22,300 followers on Instagram under the username @belletropics, told Luxury Travel Daily: ‘The more confident you appear when exploring a new place, the less of a target you’ll be.
‘Before you can gauge someone’s intentions, it’s important to avoid revealing any information that could make you more vulnerable.
Sierra Belle has journeyed all over the globe from Croatia to Montenegro and the Dominican Republic. The 26-year-old imparts her wisdom to others on Instagram under the name @belletropics. She’s pictured left in the Dominican Republic
Sierra advises women that they can be ‘rude’. She said: ‘You don’t owe anyone anything and you can’t afford to ignore your boundaries for the sake of being pleasant.’ She’s pictured above in Lanzarote
‘How much you share about yourself depends entirely on how comfortable you are in the situation and your gut feeling will be a huge help here.
‘Especially as a woman, it’s so easy to feel the pressure to be polite and give people the benefit of the doubt.
‘Sometimes you can feel like you’re caught in this dance of “don’t be rude but don’t give people (especially men) the wrong idea”.
‘You don’t owe anyone anything and you can’t afford to ignore your boundaries for the sake of being pleasant.
‘If you let that feeling of obligation take over your actual instincts, you can end up in sticky situations.
‘You’ll have to get used to feeling confident completely ignoring or shutting down people that make you uncomfortable.’
Book your hotel room with care
Belle said: ‘I believe that one of the best times to consider travelling alone is when you’re in the midst of some of those intimidating or de-stabilising turning points in life.’ She’s pictured above in Montenegro
Sierra said: ‘Solo travelling comes with an incredible amount of independence. It’s an amazing feeling that cultivates so much confidence.’ She’s pictured above in the Dominican Republic
The traveller advised that you should never stay on the ground floor of your hotel if it’s facing the street. She commented: ‘If you ever feel uncomfortable, remember that you can always find a new place to stay’
Sierra often gets comments from others about how her travel rules are excessive – but she refuses to cater to other people’s opinions. She’s pictured above in the Dominican Republic
Her next tip for staying safe is something people often don’t factor in when booking accommodation.
Megan says you should never book a room on the first floor [the ground floor to Britons], or where your door is directly on the street.
Megan said: ‘I learned this lesson the hard way in Mexico when I booked a cute Airbnb with a frosted glass door that opened up to a relatively quiet street.
‘An hour after I arrived, I was unpacking when a man stopped at my door and repeatedly tried to force the door open in broad daylight.
‘It was especially terrifying because, although the door had iron bars, I could literally see his silhouette through the frosted glass door the entire time.
‘Two days later, a man was aggressively harassing me on the street during the day. He attempted to follow me and was taking photos/videos of me from a distance.
‘Both of these experiences made me realise that I never want to stay directly on the street again.
‘These are two of the scariest experiences I’ve had solo travelling and it was just bad luck that they happened back-to-back.
‘If you ever feel uncomfortable, remember that you can always find a new place to stay. It may feel like an overreaction in the moment but I’ve done this twice and have no regrets.’
Don’t be afraid to ask for help
‘You just realistically can’t figure out everything by yourself,’ says the solo holidaymaker, who noted that it’s OK to ask for help when travelling. She’s pictured above in Portugal
Sierra said: ‘Solo travelling comes with an incredible amount of independence. It’s an amazing feeling that cultivates so much confidence.
‘I’ve avoided asking for help at times – either because it somehow feels embarrassing or because I was hesitant to trust strangers.
‘You just realistically can’t figure out everything by yourself, though!
‘This was a big moment where I learned that I can’t figure everything out on my own and that I don’t always need to.’
Ignore other people’s opinions
Sierra often gets comments from others about how her travel rules are excessive – but she refuses to cater to other people’s opinions.
She said: ‘Most of the reaction online has been very validating but slightly frustrating at the same time. Overall, I feel very supported in the community I’ve created online.
‘The fact that so many women relate is a frustrating and sad reminder that we have to go to great lengths to safely have the same experiences that men can more easily pursue.
‘Finding the courage to solo travel is mostly an inside job but having a community of women on your side can really make a huge difference.’
The best time to go
She said: ‘I believe that one of the best times to consider travelling alone is when you’re in the midst of some of those intimidating or de-stabilising turning points in life.
‘I honestly had never even thought about solo travel as a concept, let alone as a possibility for me.
‘Many travellers that you see online seem like fearless adventurers.
‘Before I started, I was looking for sources that resonated with me so that I felt confident enough to try it.
‘It’s hard to explain how life-changing solo travel can be but there is truly nothing else like it.’
