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Boyfriend is discovered not responsible of killing accomplice who wrote ‘I used to be murdered’ in suicide notice earlier than taking her personal life by laying down on practice tracks following marketing campaign of home abuse

A violent boyfriend whose fiancée went on to kill herself after enduring years of sickening abuse at his hands was today cleared of manslaughter. 

Ryan Wellings, 30, was found not guilty of killing 23-year-old Kiena Dawes through a sustained campaign of domestic abuse, during which he once told her: ‘Hitting you is like hitting a man’. 

But he was convicted of assault and coercive control after jurors heard how he would repeatedly lash out at his partner, beating her while she was pregnant with his child, as well as threatening to drown her in a bath, drill her teeth and “make her look like Katie Piper” by throwing acid over her. 

Wellings called his girlfriend a ‘s**g’, urged her to kill herself and, on one occasion, dunked her head in a bath and said: “Say goodbye to your baby”. 

In a final incident days before her suicide, Ms Dawes was ‘launched’ into a bathroom radiator with such force it broke the appliance off the wall. Wellings then slammed a door in her face, knocking her out and leaving her with blood pouring from her head.

Having felt ‘unsupported’ by police after being left bloodied by the attack, Ms Dawes then took her own life on a railway line in July 2022, having left her nine-month-old daughter with a friend.

In a suicide note found on her phone detailing how she ‘went through pain no one could imagine’, Ms Dawes added: ‘I was murdered. Slowly… Ryan Wellings killed me… he ruined every bit of strength I had left.’ 

The hairdresser from Fleetwood also wrote: ‘I hope my life saves another by police services acting faster.’ 

Kiena Dawes (pictured), 23, went missing from her home in Fleetwood, Lancashire, on July 22, 2022 before taking her own life

Kiena Dawes (pictured), 23, went missing from her home in Fleetwood, Lancashire, on July 22, 2022 before taking her own life

Ryan Wellings (pictured) was accused of carrying out a two-and-a-half year campaign of domestic abuse which led her to kill herself. But a jury has cleared him of manslaughter

Ryan Wellings (pictured) was accused of carrying out a two-and-a-half year campaign of domestic abuse which led her to kill herself. But a jury has cleared him of manslaughter

Just 11 days before her suicide, Ms Dawes suffered an horrific head wound after being attacked by her partner (Ms Dawes is seen with blood over her face in an image released today by police)

Just 11 days before her suicide, Ms Dawes suffered an horrific head wound after being attacked by her partner (Ms Dawes is seen with blood over her face in an image released today by police)

Ms Dawes' was left with a one inch gash on her forehead after Wellings slammed a door in her face during a row just 11 days before she took her life

Ms Dawes’ was left with a one inch gash on her forehead after Wellings slammed a door in her face during a row just 11 days before she took her life

The prosecution claimed  Wellings took advantage of Ms Dawes’s vulnerability, due to her mental health, and was repeatedly violent and abusive towards her.

This abuse was a ‘significant factor’ in her decision to take her own life, prosecutors said. She was later found dead on railway tracks, near Garstang, Lancashire, after being hit by a train.

Only one other defendant has been convicted in such circumstances before, Nicholas Allen, who admitted before his trial in 2017 the manslaughter of his partner, Justene Reece.

From 2020-2023, 723 domestic abuse-related deaths were identified by police in England and Wales, of which 216 were suspected victim suicides, one study found.

Wellings’ defence team insisted the injuries Ms Dawes had suffered before her death had been as a result of Wellings’ attempts to restrain her or had been inflicted accidentally. 

They suggested that descriptions of the landscape gardener’s behaviours by her had been either inaccurate, untrue or exaggerated. 

And they claimed that despite the young mother’s relationship with her partner being a ‘recipe for disaster’ – Wellings was not guilty of driving her to suicide through domestic violence.

Defence counsel John Jones KC told Preston Crown Court Ms Dawes’ suicide was not caused ‘in any significant degree’ by his client.

He added the couple’s ‘party lifestyle’ had been a ‘recipe for disaster’ and their ‘fairytale’ relationship was to end in turmoil because of  Wellings’ temper, Ms Dawes’ mental health difficulties, and their joint abuse of cocaine.

‘This corrosive and destructive combination was to bring heartache to them both, and death to one,’ Mr Jones told the jury.

‘It was a recipe for disaster. Mental health on one side, drug abuse and temper on the other. We know that. They did not know or appreciate it at the time, that’s the point.

Kiena Dawes (pictured) took her own life on July 22, 2022, after leaving the couple's nine-month-old daughter with a friend

Kiena Dawes (pictured) took her own life on July 22, 2022, after leaving the couple’s nine-month-old daughter with a friend

‘You must determine what caused that death. We say it was not caused in any significant degree by Ryan Wellings.’

Mr Jones said on ‘four if not five’ occasions, Ms Dawes had made ‘clear and determined’ suicide attempts, and that at least three of those were before she ever met Wellings.

He told the jury the prosecution case was ‘predicated on the assertion’ that but for the behaviour of the defendant, Ms Dawes would not have taken her own life.

During the trial, jurors were told that after being charged with manslaughter, Wellings downed a bottle of prosecco and went on a cocaine binge before recording a vile video taunting Ms Dawes’ grieving family.

In the clip, shared on Facebook, the landscape gardener blamed Ms Dawes’ mother for her daughter’s death and called her a ‘f****** s**g’.

The video showed Wellings being driven in a car, wearing sunglasses and holding a bottle, saying: ‘I’m driving around with a bottle of prosecco.

The court heard a 'pattern' developed of Wellings being 'aggressive and violent' before 'showering' Ms Dawes with affection

 The court heard a ‘pattern’ developed of Wellings being ‘aggressive and violent’ before ‘showering’ Ms Dawes with affection

A timeline of tragedy: From the blossoming ‘fairytale’ romance to the claims of ‘domestic abuse’ that led to a mother’s suicide 

Within weeks of first meeting in January 2020, Ryan Wellings – who already had a conviction for battery against his previous partner – had displayed signs of possessive behaviour towards Kiena Dawes.

He had tattoos done of her face and name, while violent rows and threats allegedly began in the early stages of their relationship.

2019

Feb 2019 – Ryan Wellings has violent row with then girlfriend Kayleigh Anderson, with whom he has twin daughters – he later pleads guilty to battery.

2020

Jan – Wellings is introduced to Kiena Dawes by her drug dealer brother Kynan – within weeks, Wellings has tattoos of her face and name.

Mar – after the first Covid lockdown is imposed, Wellings and Ms Dawes move in with Ms Anderson and the twins in Blackpool – only for Ms Dawes to move in with a friend in Dorset a week later.

Apr – Wellings travels to Dorset and proposes to Ms Dawes on the beach; she accepts, and they move into a house in Bournemouth.

May 29 – Wellings in first violent drunken outburst against Ms Dawes after accusing her of sleeping with a friend, throwing footstool at her, smashing wine glasses and allegedly trying to strangle her with a phone charger – Wellings also said to have called Ms Dawes a ‘s**g’ and told her to kill herself.

July 4 – Wellings again aggressive towards Ms Dawes following night out to celebrate pubs reopening after lockdown.

July 20th – couple move back to Blackpool, with Ms Dawes distraught to learn en route that her beloved father Russell has died.

Aug – Ms Dawes sends messages accusing Wellings of having ‘terrorised’ me, and being a ‘bully’ and a ‘head f***’ who will ‘ruin me’.

Oct – the couple move into a flat in Fleetwood, Lancashire.

Dec – Wellings grabs Ms Dawes by the ponytail in front of Ms Anderson and their children and throws her to the ground in a row over money, she later alleges – Wellings told trial she threw herself to the ground when he tried to snatch her phone.

2021

Feb – Ms Dawes and Wellings both ‘over the moon’ to discover she is pregnant; she stops taking medication for her mental health conditions for the sake of her unborn baby but begins feeling like she has ‘lost the plot’ and is sectioned under the Mental Health Act for three weeks.

Apr – Ms Dawes kicks Wellings out of the flat for cheating on her, only for his ‘associates’ to threaten to set fire to her car; Wellings changes his Facebook profile picture to one of him sitting in a car and holding a lighter, which he tells his trial was a coincidence – Ms Dawes calls police for first time.

July 5 – Ms Dawes – currently six months pregnant – dials 999 after violent row with Wellings, only to tells officers it was just a verbal row – 12 months later she alleges he inflicted a black eye after telling her she was ‘insane’ and the baby would be taken away when she is born.

Aug 4 – Ms Dawes calls police again to say she and Wellings have split up and he is trying to take property from the flat. Bodyworn footage shows her telling an officer he has been threatening and assaulting her.

Oct – after taking Wellings back yet again, their daughter is born, but within weeks she is messaging him that she is ‘sick of you hitting me’.

Nov – Ms Dawes’ mother Angela calls police to say Wellings is refusing to leave the flat.

Late 2021/early 2022 – Wellings switches on a drill and threatens to ‘drill my teeth out of my mouth’, Ms Dawes later alleges – during his trial, he denies ever doing so.

2022

Jan – Ms Dawes contacts the National Domestic Abuse Helpline saying Wellings has been ‘physically and emotionally abusive for over a year’ but that she feels unable to stay away from him; she is given details of local domestic violence advisers.

Mar – Wellings grabs her head and dunks her head in the baby bath, prompting her to try to jump out of the window in despair, she later alleges. In court, Wellings denies doing so.

Mar 15 – Ms Dawes again dials 999 after a row with Wellings – he can be heard accusing her of being an ‘absolute fruitcake’ to which she retorts ‘I’m sick of being beaten by you’. Officers attend and she tells them ‘the physical abuse has gradually got worse and worse’.

She makes a witness statement detailing the abuse but does not sign it, saying she fears she won’t be believed due to her mental health problems. Wellings is arrested on suspicion of assault but declines to answer any questions. The relationship resumes.

July 4 – Ms Dawes crashes her car, later telling ambulance operator she saw a train and began thinking about how ‘I wanted to be under the train’ and ‘forgot that I was even on the road’ – she also says she is ‘really suicidal’.

July 11 – Ms Dawes dials 999 saying Wellings has thrown her into a towel rail and knocked her unconscious in front of their baby daughter in a row sparked by her moving a piece of sandpaper while vacuuming – she later shares images of her bloodied head in a Facebook post which goes viral after her death.

Wellings is arrested on suspicion of ABH but tells police damage to the flat and her injuries were caused by her attacking him and having to be restrained – he tells the trial she must have cut her head when he kicked the door to the flat as she throws him out. He is bailed on conditions including not contacting Ms Dawes.

July 17 – Ms Dawes dials 999, saying she had a missed call from Wellings’ ex, Ms Anderson, but that when she called it back, Wellings threatened her. However police concluded he hadn’t breached his bail. The following day they advised her to take down her Facebook post, leaving her feeling ‘unsupported by the police’, jurors were told.

July 22 – 11.20am Ms Dawes arrives at a friend’s house, drops off her daughter and mobile phone before driving off

About 12.50pm – after driving to a railway line near Garstang Kiena she lies in front of a train, suffering fatal injuries. A suicide note found on her phone states: ‘Ryan Wellings killed me.’

2023

May 16 – police watchdog the IOPC completes its investigation into Kiena’s tragic death and the frantic search after she left her baby daughter with a friend, saying one officer had a case to answer for gross misconduct and two officers for misconduct in relation to handling of her reports of domestic abuse.

Aug 2023 – Wellings punches a friend following a drunken night out, later pleading guilty to causing ABH.

2024

June 3, 2024 – Ryan Wellings is charged with manslaughter, controlling and Coercive behaviour and assault occasioning actual bodily harm. Arrogantly he tells police: ‘You need to do your homework.’

The same day he sends her mother a video of himself in a car shouting over music: ‘Angela Dawes you need to take the blame for abandoning your daughter and going off to Greece you f******…’

He is arrested for breaching bail conditions and held in custody ahead of and during his trial. In court, Mrs Dawes denied his accusations.

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‘I have been told off an hour ago on a manslaughter charge. It’s all f****** s***.

‘Angela Dawes (Kiena’s mother), you need to take the blame for abandoning your daughter and going to Greece.

‘You are a f****** s**g.’

Ms Dawes, who had struggled with poor mental health, first met Wellings in January 2020 and was ‘swept off her feet’, her mother told the court.

Within a week Wellings would have a tattoo of her name and face on his body and after just three months he would propose.

But friends of Ms Dawes said the ‘fairytale’ relationship soon ‘turned into a nightmare’, with Wellings violently attacking her while she was pregnant.

Wellings – who was branded a ‘bully’ in court – had threatened to use a drill on her teeth and douse her in acid to disfigure her, jurors were told. He had even tried to drown her in a baby bath during one explosive attack, the court heard.

The 30-year-old would accuse Ms Dawes of cheating on him and threatened to toss her late father’s ashes out of the window during one row.

In February 2021, Ms Dawes discovered she was pregnant with Wellings’ child, later saying both were ‘over the moon’.

From that point she stopped taking her medication and her mental health took a ‘downturn’, she later said in an unsigned police statement.

Wellings said when his relationship with Ms Dawes was good it was 'perfect', but it was bad at times a result of their 'party lifestyle'

Wellings said when his relationship with Ms Dawes was good it was ‘perfect’, but it was bad at times a result of their ‘party lifestyle’

‘The emotional abuse was on a daily basis,’ she said.

‘He would talk to other women on social media and was cheating.’

Ms Dawes’ mental health condition resulted in increased impulsivity, poor self-esteem and difficulty in relationships, the court heard.

While she suffered from emotionally unstable personality disorder, Wellings ‘exploited’ her vulnerability and ‘made it worse’.

The court heard a ‘pattern’ developed of Wellings being ‘aggressive and violent’ before ‘showering’ Ms Dawes with affection.

Wellings would call her ‘a psychopath and a freak’ and tell her the baby would be taken off her after she was born, she said.

‘In the end, it was to grind Kiena down,’ Mr Greaney said.

A final assault on July 11, 2022 – just 11 days before her suicide on the West Coast Main Line near Garstang, Lancashire – proved a ‘significant factor’ in her decision to take her own life, Mr Greaney added.

In a text message to a friend, sent three days before her suicide, a despondent Ms Dawes wrote: ‘I was in hospital longer than he was in the cells. The world is f****d and I hate it.’

During the trial, jurors were told how police had previously installed panic alarms and changed the locks at her home after an assault in March 2022.

The ‘bright and popular’ hairdresser was ‘ground down’ by two-and-a-half years of domestic violence , a jury was told

The ‘bright and popular’ hairdresser was ‘ground down’ by two-and-a-half years of domestic violence , a jury was told 

She said Wellings had punched a wall, thrown a steak at the wall and ‘tried to drown her in the baby bath’.

Police made safeguarding referrals for Ms Dawes and her baby daughter, who was in the flat at the time.

However on July 11, a row broke out between Ms Dawes and Wellings when she moved some of his belongings while vacuuming.

During the argument, Wellings demanded that Ms Dawes return the engagement ring he had given her then threw it out of the window.

With their daughter ‘screaming’ on the sofa, she managed to push Wellings out of the flat, she later told police, only for him to fling the door open, causing her to black out.

Jurors were shown graphic injuries of the gashed forehead Ms Dawes sustained, with blood pouring down her face.

Wellings was arrested on suspicion of ABH, telling officers that Ms Dawes had attacked him and sustained the injuries while he was trying to get out of the flat.

He was released on bail with conditions which included not contacting Ms Dawes.

However, on July 17 she received a call from his former partner, Kayleigh Anderson – someone who Wellings had previously been convicted of attacking.

Ms Dawes, pictured, wrote that she hoped her daughter is 'kept away from the monster who is called her dad', jurors heard

Ms Dawes, pictured, wrote that she hoped her daughter is ‘kept away from the monster who is called her dad’, jurors heard

It did not connect, but Ms Dawes called the number back, then dialled 999 saying Wellings had been on the other end ‘threatening her’, only to be told that the call did not amount to a breach of his bail conditions.

After her death, jurors heard how Wellings taunted Ms Dawes’ family with a video clip – shared during a booze a drugs binge shortly after being charged with manslaughter.

Prosecutor Mr Greaney told Wellings he uploaded the video ‘on purpose to intimidate the Dawes family and show them who is boss’.

‘What we see there is the real Ryan Wellings. Ryan Wellings the bully,’ the prosecutor added.

‘The entitled person. The person who thinks he can do what he wants to people and say what he wants.’

Wellings replied: ‘I did not know what I was doing. I know I did wrong and did some stupid things. That’s me hurting. Being blamed for killing my kid’s mum, the woman I loved.’

The defendant said he was sleep-deprived and had downed bottles of prosecco and taken drugs at the time but maintained he uploaded the video to Facebook by accident and later deleted it. 

Mr Greaney moved on to the suicide note left by Ms Dawes.

He pointed out she did not blame her family for her death, writing: ‘I will always love my family. I love them unconditionally.’

Mr Greaney said the note blamed Wellings for her death, calling him a ‘monster’ and a ‘bully’.

‘She says you killed her in that note, just hours before she took her own life.

‘At the time Kiena took her own life, she was thinking about you and regarded you as a monster.’

Wellings, wiping away tears, replied: ‘I’m not a monster. Never have been.’