Coronation Street star Shobna Gulati, 58, comes out as non-binary and divulges they’re in a relationship
Coronation Street star Shobna Gulati has revealed that they now identify as non-binary.
The actor, who played Sunita Alahan in the ITV soap, said that they only recently realised there was a term to describe the feelings they had had all their life.
Speaking to Kaye Adams on her How to be 60 podcast Shobna, 58, explained: ‘I’ve become more happy describing myself as a person. What do people call it now? Non binary. So, I suppose that’s who I am.’
The star, who now lists their preferred pronouns as ‘she/they’ on social media, continued: ‘I’ve never had a word for it, but I’ve learnt from our younger generation what that might look like in terms of a word, because I know what it feels like in terms of being me.’
‘All the way through my life I’ve never had the words for that and I’ve never managed to explain that and I suppose my immediate family have not really thought about it.
Coronation Street star Shobna Gulati has revealed that they now identify as non-binary
They’ve just thought: ‘Shobna is either extremely feminine or extremely masculine.’ Because I was just accepted as a person who fell out of the tree and equally the person who put on all this make up and did a dance.’
Shobna explained that it was during a conversation with a non-binary sound engineer on a job that she realised how she identified.
‘The sound person said to me that they were non-binary and I said: ‘what is that?’ So, then they explained and I thought – ‘well, I feel like that, but I didn’t ever have that vocabulary.’
‘They said that they saw themselves as a person and that the gender – the he or the she – wasn’t important to who they are. And I thought: ‘that’s all I’ve ever thought.’
‘And I think now I’m free to say it out loud. I think people around me have accepted who I am for a long time without any explanation, but I suppose when I’m asked now, I’ll say it.’
Shobna married architect Anshu Srivastava in a Hindu ceremony when they were 23 but the couple split four years later. A year later Shobna gave birth to a son Akshay, now 30.
The actress also dated Emmerdale actor Gary Turner for four years during her 12 years on Coronation Street, explaining on the podcast: ‘I did have relationships, but then they were very public.
‘It was sad for me, because I didn’t feel that I got enough time to have a relationship and to have more children and have a private life, because it was so un-private and so exposed.
The soap star explained how growing up in Lancashire, she felt the pressure to be feminine. ‘My father would say things like: “oh you haven’t dressed up today,” or ‘you haven’t washed your hair,” or “your hair looks limp, you can’t go out like that.” I’d say: “why not?”
‘He’d make comments along the way – I walk like a boy. Lots of people tell me I walk like a boy and I do. I just don’t know quite where it all comes from, it’s just who I am and I’m happy in that now.’
Last year, Shoba revealed she was questioning her career choice after losing out on another audition.
Sharing an emotional post on Instagram, Shobna penned: ‘The face of rejection from something I didn’t even know I wanted to do in the first place.
‘Honestly why on earth did I pick this career sometimes I really don’t know anyway just so you it cold out there (sic)’
Yet that same month, she was made a Member of the Order of the British Empire by Princess Anne at Buckingham Palace.
Shobna, who was made an MBE for services to the cultural industries, looked glamorous for the momentous day.
The actress, who has enjoyed a 35-year career in the entertainment industry, most recently starred in the last ever episode of Vera on New Year’s Day and can be seen in The Serial Killer’s Wife, which airs on Channel 5 from Boxing Day.
Shobna also took part in the Bake Off festive special which aired on Christmas Eve.
The actress bid a final farewell to the cobbles of Weatherfield in 2013, with a suitably ‘dramatic’ departure planned for the much-loved character.
Leaving the Street to explore new career opportunities, the actress explained at the time that while she was said to say goodbye to Sunita, she was looking forward to focusing on comedy work in the future.
In a statement released at the time, she said: ‘I have loved playing Sunita but, having played the role originally from 2001 to 2005 and then returning to Corrie four years ago, I really feel the time has come for me to focus on other aspects of my career.
‘I had always told myself I would see my son through school, and I have done that. Comedy writing has long been a passion of mine and the commitment to a show like Corrie is huge and doesn’t really leave enough time to concentrate on other projects.
‘I’d love to be able to combine my writing and acting career in the future.
‘Playing Sunita has been a fabulous opportunity. I’ve thoroughly enjoyed her journey and am looking forward with excitement to her dramatic departure.
‘I shall miss her. That said, I have made a host of friends [in the] cast and crew – friendships that will stay with me.’
The actress played Sunita Alahan in Corrie between 2001 and 2006, returning to the popular role between 2009 and 2013.
In 2019, she took on the role of Ray in the West End production of Everybody’s Taking About Jamie and also reprised the role for the movie adaptation – the only lead star to do as such
Shobna reprised her role in Everybody’s Talking About Jamie for the 2023-2024 UK and Ireland Tour.
