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Are your kids texting secret incel emojis? These are what the seemingly-innocent symbols truly imply… and oldsters could also be shocked

Police and schools have issued warnings to parents about a ‘sinister emoji’ code used by incel teenagers in the wake of the success of Netflix hit Adolescence.

Teachers and police forces have distributed a ‘periodic table of sinister emojis’ believed to be used by under-18s to conceal disturbing messages about violence, sex, drugs, and extremism.

It comes as Adolescence, which has become the UK’s most-watched streaming programme, shows school children using emojis to spread hidden messages about misogyny and radicalisation.

The series follows 13-year-old Jamie Miller, played by Owen Cooper, who is arrested for the murder of a female classmate.

In one shocking scene, we see just how far out of their depth the series’ adults are, as DI Luke Bascome’s son explains the sinister meaning behind common emojis.

Merseyside Police have already circulated the emoji table to schools and parents, according to the Liverpool Echo. However, critics have dismissed the warnings as ‘moral panic’.  

The ’emoji code’, produced by education charity For Working Parents, exposes 60 seemingly innocent symbols being used to hide disturbing messages about drugs, violence, sex, self-harm, extremism and incels, meaning involuntary celibates.

These include the OK hand gesture, said to be linked to the far-Right, a dragon emoji representing heroin and hedgehog emoji, which signifies neo-Nazi.

Merseyside Police have already circulated the emoji table to schools and parents

Merseyside Police have already circulated the emoji table to schools and parents

Netflix's thriling drama Adolescence has shed light on the secret world of emojis. Pictured: Stephen Graham (left) and Owen Cooper (right)

Netflix’s thriling drama Adolescence has shed light on the secret world of emojis. Pictured: Stephen Graham (left) and Owen Cooper (right) 

In one shocking scene we see just how far out of their depth the series' adults are, as DI Luke Bascome's son explains the sinister meaning behind common emojis

In one shocking scene we see just how far out of their depth the series’ adults are, as DI Luke Bascome’s son explains the sinister meaning behind common emojis

Other emojis are a pill emoji, used to indicate incel culture, a ghost emoji meaning anti-woman and a devil emoji for lust.

A donut is said to mean anal sex, a pair of scissors is linked to self-harm while a horse means ketamine.

The charity, which promotes ‘inclusive communities’, says schools across the South West, London, the Midlands, and the North of England are now warning parents about the ‘sinister’ code. 

South Wirral High School in Cheshire said it was sharing the table with parents and cautioned that ’emojis aren’t always as innocent as they seem’

While, Hailsham Community College, in East Sussex, has told parents that Adolescence ‘had shone a light on how emojis can, in some instances, be used as a coded language with a more sinister meaning.’

Amit Kalley, the founder of education charity For Working Parents urged mothers and fathers to ‘keep researching and asking the right questions’ about their children’s digital lives.

He told the Telegraph: ‘The table I created is far from an exhaustive list, but I wanted to include emojis beyond incel and misogyny, because lots of young people are groomed online into drugs and violence and lots of young people are involved in dangerous sexual behaviours, which they can hide from parents by using emojis and acronyms. ‘

Councillor Simon Minas-Bound, of Basingstoke and Deane Borough Council, backed the initiative, saying it helps parents ‘understand what your child might really be saying’ in online conversations. 

Labour leader Sir Keir Starmer has praised the show, while writer Jack Thorne has called for it to be shown in schools nationwide

Labour leader Sir Keir Starmer has praised the show, while writer Jack Thorne has called for it to be shown in schools nationwide 

However, Mike Buchanan, of Justice for Men & Boys, labelled it as ‘moral panic’ and argued that crimes by boys and young men ‘are not being caused by emojis’, accusing the media of ‘gynocentrism’ in focusing solely on the dangers posed to girls.   

Adolescence continues to dominate headlines, with figures published by ratings body BARB showing that the first episode was watched by 6.45 million people in its first week.

Labour leader Sir Keir Starmer has praised the show, while writer Jack Thorne has called for it to be shown in schools nationwide.

The Prime Minister said on Monday: ‘There’s a reason why the debate has suddenly sparked into life. A lot of people who work with young people at school or elsewhere recognise that we may have a problem with boys and young men that we need to address.’ 

This is not the first time police have sounded the alarm over secret digital codes. 

In December 2022, Surrey Police warned of a ‘secret world of emojis’ linked to drugs and sex, while earlier this month, Nottinghamshire Police issued a list of 52 acronyms and hashtags allegedly used by teenagers to discuss mental health, drugs, and sex.

METHODS FOR PARENTS TO KEEP THEIR CHILDREN SAFE ONLINE

Children as young as two are using social media, research from charity Barnardo’s has suggested.

Internet companies are being pushed to do more to combat harmful content online but parents can also take steps to alter how their children use the web.

Here are some suggestions of how parents can help their children.

Use parental controls

Both iOS and Google offer features that enable parents to filter content and set time limits on apps.

For iOS devices, such as an iPhone or iPad, you can make use of the Screen Time feature to block certain apps, content types or functions.

On iOS, this can be done by going to settings and selecting Screen Time.

For Android, you can install the Family Link app from the Google Play Store.

Talk to your children

Many charities, including the NSPCC, say talking to children about their online activity is vital to keep them safe.

Its website features a number of tips on how to start a conversation with children about using social media and the wider internet, including having parents visit sites with their children to learn about them together and discussing how to stay safe online and act responsibly.

Understand their internet usage

There are tools available for parents to learn more about how social media platforms operate.

Net Aware, a website run in partnership by the NSPCC and O2, offers information about social media sites, including age requirement guidance.

Limit screen time 

The World Health Organisation recommends parents should limit young children to 60 minutes of screen time every day.

The guidelines, published in April, suggest children aged between two and five are restricted to an hour of daily sedentary screen time.

They also recommend babies avoid any sedentary screen time, including watching TV or sitting still playing games on devices.