‘Wild raunchy affair with faculty run mum is blowing my thoughts – the romps are pink sizzling’

JUST JANE: Today our agony aunt Jane O’Gorman is dealing with a new issue from a Daily Star reader who is enjoying a forbidden love affair with a fellow mum

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I can’t get a grip

I’m addicted to secret sex with another mum from my son’s school. Up until a few weeks I considered myself a completely straight woman, but now I’ve met this beautiful, intelligent queen and I’ve fallen hard. Sex with her is red hot.

She’s opened my eyes to strap-on sex toys, and now I can’t get enough of her thrusting brand of passion. Every day I tell myself that I must get a grip and dump her, but I’m too addicted and too weak.

I know that when I’m naked and in her arms, that I’ll enjoy the best orgasms ever. We’re on the same wavelength. We chat and gossip for hours and simply ‘get’ each other. There’s nothing I can’t tell her.

But is any of this fair on my husband who doesn’t suspect a thing?

JANE SAYS: Of course, your current behaviour isn’t fair on your unsuspecting husband. Do you even have to ask that question? You’re cheating and lying and playing games. It doesn’t matter one jot that your lover is the same sex as you; this affair is still wrong.

I accept that you’re in the throes of a grand passion and probably can’t think straight, but you must come to your senses before you self-destruct and ruin everything you’ve created.

What about your son’s stability? What about your marriage and your extended family?

Please, do the right thing and end this nonsense today, then consider coming clean with your husband too in an effort to find out why you felt tempted to cheat in the first place.

Sneaky mates

My bloke has too many needy female friends – none of whom like me…

There’s always one of them on the phone or round at his place, crying on his shoulder. I frequently feel pushed out and second best. There’s one girl in particular who hogs his attention and time. The story is that she’s in an on/off relationship with a bisexual man who can’t decide whether he wants to be with her or his boyfriend.

I wonder if this guy even exists; or if she’s make him up to get too close to my man. Am I right to be concerned?

JANE SAYS: I don’t blame you for feeling cheesed off. It sounds as if your boyfriend needs to decide where his loyalties lie. Clearly, he enjoys being the centre of attention and relishes being needed. Tell him that time with you has to be ring-fenced. He can’t take on the worries of the world.

He has to explain to his friends when he can and can’t talk and only fit them in when it’s convenient. And if one particular woman is over stepping mark, then she’ll have to go. Or is that a problem for him?

Lashings of fun

My new girlfriend loves bondage. She enjoys tying me up and punishing me for various (made up) crimes.

I’m struggling to cope with her brand of kinky. The other night she lashed me to her brass bed and left me there for ages. It was sexy at first, but not after the second hour. She called me boring for complaining.

JANE SAYS: Full marks for giving it all a go but now accept that bondage and punishment are not your thing. You’re giving too much of yourself away.

You’ve tried to keep an open mind, but you don’t owe your girlfriend anything. Tell her that you’re not getting anything out of these sessions and move on. We must always be aware of our limits.