‘I’ve fulfilled males’s fantasies for years however they need much more than simply intercourse’
Alix Lynx, 37, said she has been working to fulfil men’s fantasies for 14 years; however, according to her, it’s not just sex they really want. They appear to desire a lot more from women
Alix Lynx said men want more than sex(Image: Alix Lynx)
A woman who has worked to fulfil men’s fantasies for 14 years has opened up about what she thinks men really want. Alix Lynx, 37, said, when it comes to their desires about women, it’s about a lot more than what goes on in the bedroom.
The saucy content creator, from the US, admitted men have very specific wants and needs when it comes to what they desire in women, and sex is not always at the forefront of their minds. In fact, according to her, men’s needs may be very different to what you’d expect, and she confessed all in a recent frank interview.
It comes after it was reported “lonely” men are getting Artificial Intelligence (AI) girlfriends. It’s claimed there are reasons why they are turning to the virtual world to seek company.
After 14 years working in the adult industry, Alix has now shared her insight into what she thinks women are still getting wrong about men. She claims they have many misconceptions.
She said men want so much more(Image: Alix Lynx)
Alix, who has over one million followers on Instagram, said, when asked about what she’s learnt about men: “We are biologically wired very differently and run on very different operational systems. That being said, at the end of the day, men still just want to feel seen, heard and understood.
“They want, like genuine human connection, just like we all do.” When asked what men are looking for in a woman, she added: “Whether they know it or not, subconsciously we all have masculine and feminine energies.
“Most men tend to lead with masculine energy, and most women tend to lead with feminine energy. There are some women who are more masculine.
“For example, I definitely have masculine energy when I’m showing up in my business, and having to switch when I’m at home is a real thing. It’s a real thing for a lot of women because we’re all working now.
“A lot of us are breadwinners. But that doesn’t even matter – it’s really an energy thing. A lot of men have a physical type, but it’s not just about that.
“Yes, physical attraction plays a role, but it’s also that strong-but-soft feminine energy. I heard someone explain it once this way: men’s masculine energy is like fire, like a flame. Women’s feminine energy is more like water – it softens it, balances it out.
“I wish I could remember where I heard that, but it always stuck with me. Men need to feel needed to some capacity. They want to feel seen, heard, understood.
“The list is long. Open-mindedness is huge, too. Men are biologically wired for variety.”
Alix said men and women are quite different(Image: Alix Lynx)
She uses the “missionary example” to explain this theory. Alix claimed, the honest truth is, most people probably wouldn’t want to have missionary sex every single time they get intimate.
This is why open-mindedness is considered key. She said men often want to feel like our “heroes”, and they want to feel desired by women too.
“That’s the ultimate prize,” she added. “That’s why men are out here building things.”
Alix also noted there’s a distinction between fantasy and real life and, when it comes to real life, there are actually specific things they need to feel wanted day-to-day.
According to her, most people want to come home to somebody who knows them inside and out, somebody who makes them feel seen, heard and understood, somebody who’s openminded, is willing to grow, is willing to try new things and has a full life of their own.
“That’s actually pretty rare. Smart men know that,” she added. “Smart women know that. So, when it comes to fantasies, I think people sometimes take them too literally.
“A lot of things sound exciting in your imagination but, once you start breaking down what they would actually require in real life, the appeal tends to fade pretty quickly. Ultimately, men need intimacy just like women do.
“When they’re intimate with someone they genuinely love and care about, there’s something different about it. It recharges them in a way that casual experiences can’t.
“Sure, some people are happy with the playboy lifestyle, but I think a lot of men ultimately want that deeper connection with someone who knows them, understands them and cares about them.
“Random experiences might be exciting in the moment, but they’re not always fulfilling in the long run.”
