Dating expert Louanne Ward shares question to find out if someone’s serious about relationship
Dating expert: This is the one question you should ask to find out if someone is serious about a relationship
- Dating expert Louanne Ward shared the question to ask in a new relationship
- She said if you want to find out if someone is serious, don’t ask them about this ‘
- Ask ‘if you were me, what would you do if you’re looking for something serious?’
- This is more likely to surprise someone and prompt an honest answer
- Previously, Louanne said women play hard to get before men are interested
A dating expert has shared the one question you need to ask someone to find out if they are serious about a relationship – and you’re guaranteed an honest answer every time.
Louanne Ward, from Perth, said while no one has time to waste with someone if they’re not serious, men will often lie when presented with the question ‘What are you looking for?’
Instead you should ask them: ‘If you were me, what would you do if you were looking for something serious?’
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A dating expert (pictured) shared the one question you need to ask someone to find out if they are serious about a relationship – and you’re guaranteed an honest answer every time
Louanne (pictured) said you should ask someone: ‘If you were me, what would you do if you were looking for something serious?’
‘If you’re dating a guy and you’re not sure whether he’s serious about wanting a relationship or whether he’s messing around, don’t ask him what are you looking for?’ Louanne said in an Instagram video.
‘Of course, men can tell you exactly what you want to hear, so if you ask them flat out what are they looking for, they are generally gonna tell you what you want to hear.’
If you want an honest answer, the dating expert said you should ask ‘if you were me, what would you do if you were looking for something serious?’
‘Depending on the answer that the guy gives you, you will have all the answers you need to know,’ Louanne said.
‘Of course, men can tell you exactly what you want to hear, so if you ask them flat out what are they looking for, they are generally gonna tell you what you want to hear,’ she (pictured) said
For instance, if he says ‘if you’re looking for something serious, I think we should explore the next level of our relationship because I’m also looking for something serious’, you will know he is on the same page as you.
Meanwhile, if she says ‘I think you should keep looking around because I am not looking for something serious’, you’ll know he just sees your relationship as fun.
‘Depending on his answer, he is going to tell you everything you need to know in answer to this question,’ Louanne said.
Louanne (pictured) previously said single women are guilty of ‘playing hard to get’ before a man is even interested in them
Previously, Louanne shared the one thing you should never do if you want a man to chase you.
She said single women are guilty of ‘playing hard to get’ before a man is even interested.
And while they might think they are making him even keener, in fact the opposite is true.
‘Ladies, here’s a tip about getting a man to chase you,’ Louanne said in an Instagram video.
‘A man is not going to chase you unless you give him an opportunity to chase you. Playing hard to get before he’s even interested in you is not going to work.’
She said if you’ve been out on one or two dates and you think it’s time for him to start chasing, you’re wrong – and he just won’t do it.
‘At this stage, he hasn’t made up his mind whether he’s interested in you or not,’ she said.
‘Don’t play games. Give him an opportunity to decide whether he wants to chase you.’