Lulu reveals the secrets and techniques (most of them) about her vibrant love life

Lulu desires to say goodbye. ‘Well, maybe farewell, that’s a a lot nicer phrase.’ 

After a staggering 60 years on the highway, the much-loved singer is occurring tour for the ultimate time. ‘I’m not going to surrender working, however I do wish to reside my life in a different way,’ she says with enthusiasm. ‘I’m 75 years outdated now. I’ll by no means cease singing and I’ll do a live performance right here and there however no extra excursions.’

The resolution got here after a bruising expertise final 12 months. ‘I did a tour and it was gruelling. Not enough space to rest between shows. So I just thought, “Right. This is it. Farewell tour with family and friends.”’

And what associates she has. Nobody’s bought a greater little black e book than Lulu, who’s been buddies with Sir Paul McCartney because the Beatles, whose shut chum Sir Elton John helped revitalise her profession within the 90s and whose comeback flared into life after she sang with Gary Barlow and Take That on their Number One single Relight My Fire. 

Lulu is aware of higher than to say for positive that any of them will flip up on tour, however her eyes glitter as she leans in and says, ‘I think I have some good names!’

She definitely is aware of seem like an off-duty pop star in her brilliant white designer trainers, black bell bottoms and a varsity jacket. A baseball cap is pushed down over her blonde hair and there are darkish glasses prepared for the road outdoors.

‘I was a child star, if you want to use that horrible phrase,’ she says. ‘I wasn’t planning to depart Glasgow. I used to be trying ahead to being a hairdresser within the day and possibly getting a job singing at night time.’

Lulu was generally known as Marie Lawrie as she grew up within the tenements after the conflict. Money was tight and life was powerful with an alcoholic father and a mom who’d been given up as a baby. Both have been violent and she or he lay awake worrying they might kill one another. Her father Eddie might sing like Pavarotti and Marie in some way appeared like an outdated blues soul in a younger lady’s physique.

She was found in a disco at 14 by an agent referred to as Marion Massey, who gave a brand new title to this ‘real lulu of a kid’. Lulu’s first hit was a full-throated model of the Isley Brothers’ Shout in 1964, and it’s been her signature tune ever since. ‘If I don’t do Shout on tour, I believe I’ll be killed!’

Young Lulu was catapulted right into a world like nothing she knew, with screaming followers however exhausting schedules and strict orders to observe. ‘And it was terrifying, sometimes. Male and females alike, the performers had no power. It was all about the record companies controlling.’ 

So how did she survive the sexist 60s, when the free-love revolution appeared to make males really feel they may do no matter they favored to younger girls? Have issues modified? 

‘I think there’s nonetheless extra work to be finished in a lot of areas. I can solely actually speak about myself. I had essentially the most unbelievable supervisor. I used to be very protected.’ Marion was answerable for her affairs for greater than 25 years. ‘Now I look back and realise it made a huge difference to be managed by someone who was a woman and a mother.’

The Eurovision Song Contest was seen as a bit naff in 1969 and Lulu misplaced soul credibility after profitable with Boom Bang-a-Bang. The hits dried up for some time and her theme track for The Man With The Golden Gun didn’t make the charts, uncommon for a James Bond movie. ‘I cried a lot. I was being given songs that weren’t proper.’

Then got here an surprising intervention – from David Bowie. ‘He stated, “The record company don’t get your voice.” He was the primary one. I felt seen. I felt heard. I used to be blown away that he even thought-about working with me, however he pursued me.’ Bowie had a track for Lulu referred to as The Man Who Sold The World, launched 50 years in the past this 12 months. ‘So many people say it’s the track they wish to hear me sing once more.’

She’d solely lately divorced Maurice Gibb of the Bee Gees after 4 years, though they remained associates. Lulu and Bowie grew to become lovers, as described in her autobiography I Don’t Want To Fight. ‘He had a reputation for being sexually adventurous and I’m positive it’s true, however with me he stayed inside pretty regular territory. It wasn’t wild or something like that.’

The greatest thrill was that Bowie liked her voice, she says now. ‘God knows I was nervous. I felt he was cool and I felt I was not.’ He disagreed, however she had a tough time coping with his admiration. ‘It shakes you. It’s laborious to soak up. I didn’t consider it.’

They bought collectively each few weeks within the six months between the recording session and the songs’ launch, within the full data of his spouse Angie, who additionally had lovers. ‘He wanted to do more and wrote a song for me called Can You Hear Me?. I recorded it but it never came out. It got lost. I did one other song, I can’t bear in mind what it was. Nobody can discover them.’

Lulu and David have been shut, however she felt overwhelmed by his hedonistic, drug-fuelled way of life. ‘David had a life that was frightening. I ran away, to be honest. I made excuses: “I’ve bought to get again, I can’t keep in New York, I’ve bought to go.” That anxious baby of mine got here out.’ What does she imply? ‘I live in a high state of anxiety. It has a lot to do with what happened in my childhood.’

Bowie was heading for the darkest interval of his life anyway. ‘Oh yes. He was already there in New York. So I ran.’ For a second it seems like she has regrets. ‘Who knows how it would have turned out if I hadn’t run? You can think about.’

They may’ve made unimaginable music, however after a second’s reflection Lulu says it was factor she listened to her personal emotions. ‘The anxiety I still have has been a warning sign with me in life. Actually, it threw me into the arms of my next husband, who seemed to be just the opposite.’

The hairdresser John Frieda had been a secure buddy for years. They married in 1977 and had a son, Jordan, who’s now an actor and restaurateur. 

I ask if Lulu ever noticed Bowie once more and she or he reveals for the primary time that, sure, they did have a reconciliation of types, in New York within the 90s. ‘I bumped into him and Iman [his supermodel wife] at the theatre. She very sweetly said, “David, David look, Lulu!”

‘I wasn’t even going to speak to him, I didn’t know what to do. He rotated and stated, “Oh, my goodness. I hear you were angry with me.” I stated, “Angry with you? You got the wrong message. Maybe frightened.” I don’t assume I truly stated that final bit however it was what was in my thoughts.’ 

Just a few years later she noticed him carry out on the BBC Radio Theatre along with her associates Meg Ryan and Russell Crowe. ‘We went backstage.’ Was it awkward? ‘No, we didn’t go over s**t like that.’ She and Bowie mentioned the recordings they made collectively within the 70s. ‘He stated, “I’m going to get you those tracks.” He by no means did. When Bowie died in 2016 she despatched her like to Iman and their kids and stated, ‘I feel a deep and profound sadness.’

After settling down with John Frieda and giving delivery to a boy, Lulu bumped into the arms of sunshine leisure. She was common on tv however described the low level of her profession as when she did panto at Lewisham within the 80s with Jeremy Beadle. ‘It was just survival,’ she says now. She parted firm along with her supervisor after 25 years on the finish of the last decade and leaned on allies together with Sir Elton and her personal brother Billy to create her revival within the 90s. Her flip with Take That lit the love of an entire new era of followers.

Lulu additionally confirmed she might make enjoyable of herself on Absolutely Fabulous, because the despairing consumer of Jennifer Saunders’ wayward PR guru Edina. The catchphrase from that present is now the title of her new tour. ‘God bless Jennifer for coming up with that on Ab Fab. I literally can walk down the street anywhere in the world and I will have strangers just shout, “Champagne for Lulu!” It makes me laugh.’

But Lulu was going by private ache. She break up up with John Frieda in 1991 and their son Jordan went to America along with his father. ‘I think my mother had an undiagnosed nervous breakdown when I left. I only became aware of it when my son went to live in America at the same age I had been,’ she says. ‘My son going was very painful for me as a mother. Only then could I feel shame about not recognising how what I had done had made my mother feel. There was a sense of payback. Or karma.’

So what would her mom Elizabeth make of her now? The accent returns. ‘She’d say, “Oh Marie! You’re always wearing those baseball hats, I don’t like them.” She’d have one thing to say, consider me. She was massive on garments. I’m my mom’s daughter.’ Would she be proud? ‘She was really proud of me. So was my father.’ She’s clearly at peace along with her previous. She provides, ‘I’ve had years of remedy!’

Lulu additionally reconciled with John Frieda. ‘I think we were brother and sister in a past life, there’s such a connection.’ Is she single? ‘I’m not answering that. It’s pathetic. What am I, 15 years outdated?’ Fair level. Lulu takes no nonsense, which she says comes from Glasgow and her household. ‘You cannae kid me. I can see right through you.’

Feels prefer it too, as she falls again into the outdated accent, leans ahead and stares laborious with these massive eyes; however the subsequent minute Lulu is laughing. What else has helped her survive? ‘I’ve been meditating for 40 years,’ says the yoga devotee who commonly goes on retreats in India. ‘I have a different life because of it. When you meditate, you get more clarity. You have an inner wisdom.’ Acting lessons have helped her to open up. ‘You have to bring a part of yourself to the character, to make it truthful.’

Lulu stars alongside Diane Keaton and Patricia Hodge within the late-life comedy drama Arthur’s Whisky, which is out now. She’s writing a brand new memoir, engaged on a documentary and placing collectively a brand new album of collaborations. Then there’s the tour, beginning in Glasgow. ‘I only lived there for 14 years, but it still feels like coming home,’ she says. ‘I always feel a little trepidation. There is a lot of love for me there, which is really touching to see.’

I get the sensation one of many causes she’s stored going all these years is a relentless optimism, born out of getting to make one of the best of powerful instances. ‘I’m proud of that description. I’m who I’m. I’ve accepted quite a lot of issues in life, I’m not operating away now. I’m not as fearful as I used to be. When I hook up with an viewers it’s deep,’ she says.

‘I can’t consider I’m 75, I don’t really feel that age however I’m doing these live shows to have fun the lengthy profession that I’ve had. Celebrate, have fun, have fun!’

• Champagne For Lulu excursions from 9 April, tickets: myticket.co.uk.