Jerry Lee Lewis’ 13-year-old bride says she had to be ‘the adult’ in their marriage

‘I was the bad thing in his life’: Great Balls of Fire singer Jerry Lee Lewis’ 13-year-old cousin bride explains how SHE was blamed for imploding his career as she breaks his silence after his death at age 87

  • Jerry Lee Lewis’ wife Myra Williams, 78, said that despite being 13 when she married 22-year old Lewis in 1957 she was the adult throughout their marriage
  • Lewis, one of rock and roll’s earliest pioneers, died at 87 years old on Friday
  • In a recent interview Williams recalled how she managed the family finances, and bought homes and cars during her marriage to Lewis
  • Williams recalled how Lewis career was derailed when news of their marriage broke in 1958
  • The couple were married for 13 years, eventually divorcing after Lewis became lost in substance abuse 

Jerry Lee Lewis‘ ex-wife said that she was the adult in their relationship, despite the recently deceased rocker marrying her when she was just 13-years old.

Myra Williams, 78, recalled how she ‘took care of everything’ during her 13-year marriage to Lewis, who was also her first cousin once removed and nine years her senior.

Lewis, one of rock and roll’s earliest pioneers, died at 87 years old on Friday. He soared to fame alongside stars like Elvis Presley, Roy Orbison, and Johnny Cash with hits like Great Balls of Fire and Live at the Star Club, Hamburg.

But his ascent up the charts ground to a halt when news of his marriage to Williams broke a year after their 1957 nuptials. As Lewis was lambasted in the press, his label – the famous Sun Records – stopped promoting him and tour dates dried up for a period.  

‘I was the bad thing in his life,’ Williams said in an interview with the Los Angeles Times, recalling how she and Lewis were harshly judged by the public.

The couple divorced in 1970 over ‘adultery and abuse’ as Lewis became mired in drug addiction.

Myra Williams, 78, recalled how she ‘took care of everything’ during her 13-year marriage to Jerry Lee Lewis. The rock star was also her first cousin once removed and nine years her senior

Lewis and Myra Williams on their wedding day in 1957. Lewis was 22 at the time and Williams was 13

‘I was the bad thing in his life,’ Williams said in an interview with the Los Angeles Times, recalling how she and Lewis were harshly judged by the public. The couple divorced in 1970

Myra Williams, now 78, recalled in a recent interview how despite being just 13 when she married Lewis, she felt like the adult in their marriage

Williams said that though she was characterized as a ‘child bride’ when news of her marriage to Lewis broke, inside their relationship things were quite the opposite.

‘I was called the child bride, but I was the adult and Jerry was the child,’ she told the LA Times. ‘When I look back on it, how can you defend yourself when you’re 13 years old? I mean there’s no excuse good enough for that to be OK.’

She said that the moment she became a wife she assumed all the responsibilities in the marriage.

‘I didn’t miss a beat. I took care of everything,’ she said.

Williams bought a house for the family while Lewis was away on tour, and also bought a red Cadillac convertible he requested she pick up.

‘I mean, I didn’t even have a driver’s license,’ Williams said, recalling how she ran the family’s finances.

‘I did all the work and made all the decisions and did all the running and taking care of business and that kind of stuff.’

‘One time I went to the bank with a big sack of money to deposit it… and the teller said to me, ‘Myra, there’s a policeman sitting there outside in his car and he followed you here. So when you get ready to leave, I’ll drive you home.’

Williams said that though she was characterized as a ‘child bride’ when news of her marriage to Lewis broke, inside their relationship things were quite the opposite 

Williams bought a house for the family while Lewis was away on tour, and also bought a red Cadillac convertible he requested she pick up 

Williams recalled to the LA Times how her father invited Lewis – his cousin – to stay at their home in Memphis, Tennessee so he could record at Sun Records.

Although Lewis was still married to his second wife at the time, Williams said the two fell in love and eloped.

She said when her father found out about the marriage ‘he got his gun.’

‘That was not a happy moment. Daddy felt very betrayed by that. I was his 13-year-old little girl.’

Williams told how her father chased Lewis to Sun Records, but producer Sam Phillips had already told Lewis to flee. She said Phillips calmed her father, and that when Lewis returned to town he told him ‘You better be good to my girl.’

‘There was just no choice. I mean, killing Jerry was not an option. It was his first thought, but it wasn’t an option,’ Williams said.

Myra Williams in a photo posted in 2015. She is 78-years-old today. She and Lewis divorced in  1970

Jerry Lee Lewis pictured in the final photo taken of him before his death alongside fellow music legend Kris Kristofferson

A year into their marriage Williams had their first child at 14-years-old. The boy died three years later in a drowning accident when Williams was just 17. By 19 she had a second child.

She said in the early years of their marriage things were great and that she and Lewis often clowned around their house together.

But when Lewis began using drugs and alcohol regularly, his personality began to change.

‘His personality just became mean. And nasty. It was like a whole different man. Just bad, you know?’ she told the LA Times.

Despite the burdens she faced at such a young age, Williams said her time with Lewis gave her a ‘strength’ she carried with her throughout her life. 

‘Yes, it was turbulent as a teenager to be a wife and mother,’ she said. ‘But in going through it, I’ve found my strength. And there’s almost nothing that can knock me off my block at this point.’