Some {couples} might take into consideration opening their marriage and sleeping or courting different individuals to spice issues up.
However, one man has warned towards it after admitting he regrets his resolution to take action.
The man says he needs he’d by no means made the suggestion now that his spouse is bombarded with consideration from different males, based on The Mirror.
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He prompt they open their marriage after feeling just like the ‘spark’ had gone between them. However, he now looks like an ‘fool’ as she is continually on dates – whereas he has had the exact opposite.
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The man even claimed he had misplaced his job after asking a colleague out for a drink, and when he tried to shut the wedding she mentioned no as she was proud of the way it was going.
The pair have been 19 years, and when their daughter moved out, he felt the spark had gone. Not desirous to break up, he’d proposed the concept of an open marriage, which his spouse was initially upset about, however then favored the concept. He then realised he’d made an error and claimed it “kills him” when he is aware of she’s with different males.
Writing on Reddit he mentioned: “I have learned that just because I wasn’t as attracted to my wife as I was when we got married it doesn’t mean other men would feel the same. My wife has so many men and dates she doesn’t know what to do with them all. Meanwhile, it’s the opposite for me.”
Talking about asking a colleague on a date, he mentioned he wasn’t her supervisor they usually labored in numerous divisions, however added: “Even though I wasn’t her manager and I am in an open marriage she complained to her manager and showed HR my messages. I lost my job.”
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As he realised he had made a mistake, he approached the choice of closing the wedding. The submit additional detailed: “I told my wife I want to close our marriage again because I was an idiot for suggesting it in the first place. She said no, she’s happy with how things are. It’s killing me when I know she is with other men.”
He additionally claimed his brother referred to as him a “moron” when he advised him and mentioned: “Expecting my wife to look like she did when she got married made me a dunce. He even went so far as to say she takes good care of herself and is in great shape for 44, she just doesn’t look 20. He had the nerve to say my wife looks better than me and I could stand to lose some weight.”
The submit concluded: “I love my wife and I don’t want a divorce. I never wanted a divorce which is why I proposed this in the first place. But she doesn’t want to close the marriage,” and added: “I’m just glad my daughter enlisted in the RCAF and isn’t here to see our marriage falling apart.”
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People had been fast to provide their ideas, as many agreed that he did not deserve any sympathy. One wrote: “You asked for this. You literally lead your family into this. This is on you. You sound extremely selfish. The only reason you want it to end is because you were rejected while she was accepted. Weird.”
While one other echoed: “You had a crush on someone at work. You asked your wife for a pass. She doesn’t want to but eventually agrees. You ask out your crush. She rejects you. You suddenly don’t want the marriage open? Lol. Dude you had a specific person in mind. Don’t dip your pen in company ink, and don’t harass people at work.”