A lady who says she used to have a pert busty chest earlier than having kids has stated she’s been left in tears over her ‘pancake boobs’.
The girl, generally known as kiki0809 on-line, previously boasted a 32D chest earlier than having children. However, she says now her chest ‘would not have any fullness anymore’. The girl claims her husband now finds her chest ‘unattractive’ and has even provided for her to get surgical procedure – leaving her upset.
She took to Reddit to disclose her dilemma in a put up that has resurfaced this week. The spouse wrote: “I really need some advice. I’m 25, I have been married for 4 years now and I have 2 kids (2 and 4), I always had a nice body and my boobs were perfect before having kids. My husband is a boob guy and loved them (I was a 32D). Now I have flat pancake empty boobs, I can literally fold them in half.
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“They haven’t any fullness anymore and I do miss my previous boobs, however I can deal. The downside is that my husband would not like them, he finds them unattractive and he has even instructed me when he seems to be at my bare physique he needs I regarded totally different. He would even drop a ton of cash proper now to get me ‘new and higher’ boobs, despite the fact that I do not need that.”
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Revealing how she felt concerning the state of affairs, the lady added: “I can’t stop crying, I have been with this guy since I was 13 years old and I don’t want to live the rest of my life trying to live up to the standards of other women’s boobs. Motherhood is hard enough and I just can’t seem to cope with this on my mind. He says he will just deal with them and get used to them.
“I simply do not know what to do?! Has anybody else been via this? What did you do and what modified? Please assist I cant even have a look at myself within the mirror anymore, I’m disgusting and undesirable by the one one who issues to me. I cant stand being bare in any respect particularly round him. I’m actually sick to my abdomen.”
The post sparked a ton of responses as people slammed her husband for being ‘cruel’. One person wrote: “That was actually merciless of him to say. He has NO IDEA what it is wish to actually sacrifice your complete physique to bear his kids. He did the enjoyable half and now he thinks it is okay to criticise you over one thing you may’t management?
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“I’d flat out tell him how upset he has made you, and that there is a time for honesty, but he crossed the line between constructive criticism and downright a**-hattery. You have a very negative perception of your post-kid body and he’s not being supportive of all the changes you’ve gone through.”
Another added: “What. An. A**hole. Before kids, my boobs were amazing. After breastfeeding three kids, they’re pretty sad. It’s like they decided they fulfilled their purpose and hightailed it into the sunset.”
While a 3rd chimed in: “If he’s going to start suggesting unnecessary and unwanted surgical procedures, maybe it’s time to make a laundry list of all the sh*t he needs to change. Bonus points if it’s something he’s already insecure about.”
The poster replied to the final message: “Right! I felt like it trust me, he has a dad bod and is not perfect by any means. This is really a one time thing! He is usually super sweet and supportive, this is very out of the ordinary unfortunately which makes me feel worse because he must really mean it.”
Someone else instructed the poster that loads of guys would love her ‘pancake boobs’, with the lady agreeing ultimately. She wrote: “I had no idea that guys liked pancake boobies and I told him that. Like either learn to love them or I will find some guy who will! Thank you!”
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