When it comes to sex, everyone has different fantasties.
We all have our own quirks, and get turned on by different things. But sometimes, our wildest dreams don’t live upto expectations, and it can leave things feeling a little flat.
This was the reality for one woman whose world was turned upside down after she had a threesome with her husband. He’d wanted one for some time, but things didn’t go as he’d expected when she eventually gave in.
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She shared the story on Reddit as she hoped people would offer some advice. She confessed her hubby “wasn’t ready” for the threesome, and now she’s worrying about it.
Even though it was something they had talked about for a while, he didn’t expect her to be the one to enjoy it more. In fact, the whole situation has left things a little tense.
It seems he’s been left a little self-concious as she had such a good time between the sheets. Maybe sometimes three isn’t always the magic number after all!
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Writing on Reddit, the woman said: “So my husband (M34) wanted to try a mmf threesome. We spoke about it for ages and I eventually agreed it could be exciting and it took some time, but we eventually found someone that we were both comfortable with.
“Anyway, once we all got down and dirty it turned out the other guy was an absolute pro. It’s very hard to explain it, but he just knew exactly where and when to squeeze, slap, tickle, spank, tease and suck. He was also very very generously endowed.
“He gave me five orgasms that night… Now my husband it p***ed off at me. He’s not talking much at all, and said he’s never doing it ever again. It’s been a few days and he’s still not really talking. This also annoys me too, because I feel like he organised it for his pleasure, and the fact I had a good time seems very low on his list of priorities.
“I can take it or leave it, we have a good marriage. I love him like crazy, and it was really just a fun night. I don’t mind if we don’t do it again, but I just wish he wasn’t so angry.
“Does anyone have any ideas on how to fix this? I did say to him that we could maybe try a mff threesome, and his reply was ‘you would like that wouldn’t you’.”
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The post has sparked a lot of attention online, as it’s got hundreds of people talking on the social media forum. People suggested the issue is probably related to his “ego”, but said there are ways you can work to boost it.
They said it may take some time for the relationship to get to where it was. Not to mention, a lot of talking will probably have to be done.
One person offered rational advice, writing: “I would have a conversation about how sex is not a race but a journey. He isn’t happy and I would, because you know him more than us. Give him space or whatever he does to calm down after a stressful situation.
“Right now don’t talk about it or bring it up. Give it time like a week or whatever to chill. During that time I think you should type up things you want to talk about and revisit this when he isn’t being like this.”
Another said: “Unfortunately, these never seem to work out. I’ve witnessed three marriages fail because they THOUGHT they could do threesomes/thrupple/foursome, etc. It’s just not worth it.”
A third replied: “He realised the grass isn’t always greener.” Meanwhile, a fourth commented: “If you can, couples therapy with a sex positive counsellor is designed for exactly this. It’s not going to get better unless your husband can do some introspection and you two can talk about things.”
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