The desires that point out you are about to DIE: Terminally ailing individuals reveal their commonest visions – together with being reunited with misplaced family members and seeing the sunshine

It’s something many of us regularly think about – what happens when you’re about to die? 

Now, scientists have revealed the dreams you’ll probably have as you near your end. 

Experts from Azienda USL–IRCCS di Reggio Emilia surveyed more than 200 carers of terminally ill people about their end–of–life dreams and visions (ELDVs). 

And the results revealed several common themes. 

Many reported vivid dreams featuring lost loved ones, while others saw symbols of transition, including doors, stairways and light. 

According to the researchers, these themes may offer psychological relief and meaning to people facing end of life. 

‘[ELDVs] carry an important relational potential,’ the researchers explained in their study, published in the journal Death Studies.

‘Talking about ELDVs allows patients to approach otherwise unspeakable topics through a symbolic mode of expression, bypassing the obstacles of rational language, which can instead trigger defensive reactions such as denial.’

It’s something many of us regularly think about – what happens when you’re about to die? Now, scientists have revealed the dreams you’ll probably have as you near your end (stock image)

There have already been several studies on near–death experiences, and the visions people experience during them. 

However, until now, little has been known about the dreams people experience when they’re about to die. 

‘Despite their prevalence and relational significance, ELDVs still lack a clear cultural and clinical understanding,’ the team, led by Elisa Rabitti, explained.

‘Patients often hesitate to disclose them due to fear of ridicule, judgment, or being perceived as confused and may minimize their importance when they do share them.’

To get to the bottom of it, the team surveyed 239 palliative care doctors, nurses, and psychologists about the dreams their terminally ill patients had told them. 

The results revealed several common themes. 

Firstly, many participants experienced encounters with deceased loved ones. 

‘One professional, for instance, recounted a patient who dreamed of her husband saying, “I’m waiting for you,” interpreting this as a sign of inner peace and acceptance of death,’ the researchers explained. 

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Many reported vivid dreams featuring lost loved ones (stock image), while others reported symbols of transition, including doors, stairways and light

Others saw symbols of transition, such as doors, stairways, or light. 

For example, one patient described herself ‘climbing barefoot toward an open door filled with light’. 

Some of the dreams were described as unsettling or distressing.   

‘One participant recalled a patient who dreamed that “a monster with my mother’s face was dragging me down,” an image the professional perceived as reflecting unresolved emotional conflict or fear of letting go,’ the team explained. 

In contrast, other dreams conveyed beauty or serenity – often through natural or symbolic imagery. 

For example, one patients described seeing a ‘white horse galloping along the shoreline.’ 

The reason for these different visions remains unclear. 

However, several of the healthcare professionals put forward their suggestions. 

‘Some participants suggested that comforting dreams, especially those involving deceased loved ones, might be understood as psychospiritual coping mechanisms,’ the researchers explained. 

‘While distressing visions might indicate unmet clinical or emotional needs.’ 

WHAT DOES DYING FEEL LIKE?

Scientists reported in October 2017 that they had discovered a person’s consciousness continues to work after the body has stopped showing signs of life.

That means they may be aware of their own death and there is evidence to suggest someone who has died may even hear their own death being announced by medics.

A team from New York University Langone School of Medicine investigated the topic through twin studies in Europe and the US of people who have suffered cardiac arrest and ‘come back’ to life, in the largest study of its kind.

Study author Dr Sam Parnia told Live Science: ‘They’ll describe watching doctors and nurses working and they’ll describe having awareness of full conversations, of visual things that were going on, that would otherwise not be known to them.’

He said these recollections were then verified by medical and nursing staff who reported their patients, who were technically dead, could remember details of what they were saying.

Doctors define death based on when the heart no longer beats, which then immediately cuts off blood supply to the brain.

Once that happens, blood no longer circulates to the brain, which means brain function halts almost instantaneously.

You lose all your brain stem reflexes, including your gag reflex and your pupil reflex.

The brain’s cerebral cortex, which is responsible for thinking and processing information from the five senses, also instantly flatlines.

This means that within two to 20 seconds, no brainwaves will be detected on an electric monitor.

This sparks a chain reaction of cellular processes that will result in the death of brain cells. 

However this can take hours after the heart has stopped, researchers said.