‘My attractive finest mate received caught bonking her personal brother-in-law – now she needs my man’

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She’ll shag anyone

My ‘best mate’ has slept with dozens of strangers and had numerous affairs with married men. She was once caught shagging her own brother-in-law at a music festival. Her furious sister hit the (tent) roof, but my mate just laughed. That’s what she’s like. She doesn’t give a fig about anything or anyone. All she’s interested in is her own sexual satisfaction and having a laugh.

Now she’s after my man and I’m scared…

She fancies the pants off him.

I’ve always operated an open door policy, just recently however, she’s started overstepping the mark. She turns up at all hours and openly flirts with him in front of my face. Recently I had to go away for work and when I came back, I discovered she had stayed over in my house – in my bed.

My bloke claims he took the sofa and his mate backs him up, but why was she doing here in the first place?

She’s told me some weird story about an unexploded bomb near her flat, but I just don’t believe her anymore. I’ve asked her to respect my relationship. I’ve told her that I don’t like her behaviour, but she just smirks. My partner assures me that I’ve got nothing to worry about, and I do believe that he loves me.

It’s just this tricky madam who is getting under my skin. Her last relationship ended in tatters when she attempted to blackmail her married boss. His wife nearly had a nervous breakdown.

My mate is never happier than when she’s creating a scene and is at the centre of attention. How do I tame her before I explode?

JANE SAYS: Why shouldn’t you shout your head off and order this horrible woman out of your home for good?

What’s wrong with exploding? The fact is that you must be able to trust the people who come through your front door. By the sounds of things, you’re a very friendly, welcoming woman. You like having pals around you. Well, I’ve got some news for you; this tricky, manipulative creature is no pal of yours and you need to show her the exit right now before she destroys your relationship and ruins your life.

Get her on the phone or face her up and explain that this has all gone far enough. Staying over at your house, in your bed was the final straw and she’s not to turn up again because she’s no longer welcome.

As for your chap; sit him down and simply spit it out. Describe how this individual has made you feel vulnerable and unsure. Is there anything he needs to tell you about their time together?

Have there been any other times together? If the answer is no, then you must force yourself to put this behind you and move on. Otherwise, this friend will have succeeded in coming between you and will have ‘won’. Fight back and don’t allow her to gain the upper hand.

Serious scrounger

My daughter wants her boyfriend to move into her bedroom us. He doesn’t get on with his folks, so she’s suggested we give her two rooms, her own fridge, cooker and TV.

My husband is furious as she still owes us £5,000 from her gap year when she failed to find a job. She’s 25 and playing us off against each other.

JANE SAYS: Your cheeky daughter is trying her luck. If you won’t want her boyfriend living under your roof, then you need to put your foot down. Similarly, if she fancies a new TV etc., then she’ll have to save up her pennies.

Be strong and don’t allow yourself to be manipulated. She must understand that you want harmony and peace and aren’t prepared to fall out with her father over this.